rainbow,
there are limits to ALL relationships, not just the therapeutic one. No one will ever meet all those unmet needs. It's impossible. What you are looking for in Ts does not exist anywhere. I think it's great that you have started DBT. It will teach you how to cope with reality. You don't have to suffer all your life in search for someone to fill those unmet needs. DBT can teach you how to stop suffering. radical acceptance!