
Sep 22, 2012, 09:27 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
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Bless your hearts. When I lost my husband 11 years ago, I thought I'd die -- in fact I wanted to. I wanted to go with him. It was my 2nd marriage, and he died 12 days before our first anniversary! I just couldn't grasp that he was actually gone. I lived in a fog for the first year. Thank God my daughter was around or else I would have really done something!
I've been depressed since I was a small child, so obviously this didn't help. I'd been on medication for years, but my doctor adjusted my medication and also put me on Abilify on top of my antidepressant which helped alot!!!
You need to see a therapist who deals with grief also. This is important, as this is a big part of your current depression. Then he can also work on your other issues as well. See your medical doctor and tell him you need to see a therapist -- he will refer you to a good therapist in your area. Do this as soon as possible as the sooner you get started, the sooner you'll feel better.
Best of luck, and please keep us posted, ok? God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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