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In my opinion only the two people who are "fighting" know the real truth sometimes Having been a mod here myself (I stepped down due to time constraints) I do know that mods and admin give people the benefit

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I agree with this. I used to 'jump to the defense' of people, usually someone I perceived as an underdog, then I learned in my boundary work that I was really sort of putting down the person I was trying to 'defend', as if they could not speak up for themselves.

On the other hand, I'd wouldn't be being honest if I said that having folks lend their 'support' in some conflict situations wasn't comforting, because it was...

It's a boundary thing that I, personally, continue to struggle with.

Oh, (((Fuzz))), I've dropped a stitch, , 'cause I can't remember my point ...

Sorry about losing my train of thought...

XOXO,
Peanutty