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Old Aug 05, 2006, 03:01 PM
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Hi Jax:

I don't even know where my ignore button is, (apparently a new thing since I was a regular), but, anyway, my suggestion would be to do the best you can, (that's all any of us can do, eh?!), and to not assume that you are, in fact, on someone's ignore, and even if you factually are, it's still their 'stuff' ultimately, and, though really difficult I know, try not to take the action 'personally'.

I can certainly appreciate the frustration of not having an opportunity to try to work something out with another, (or even know why you are on ignore), but, again, it is, 'their' decision for whatever reason and not something you can really change.

My suggestion would be to examine whether you have said/done anything that you believe was inappropriate and, if not, consider it pretty much the other persons' loss of your input.

Hopefully, the person WILL give you feedback which you can look at and, if you want to, you can begin a dialogue to try to resolve the matter.

It's so important NOT to take it personally, 'cause there could be so many reasons for what folks' do that have nothing to do with us, ya know.

I'm not keen on the ignore feature, even if I knew how it worked , so you won't end up on mine!

Hang in their, Jax - from what I've seen so far, you seem to be doing just fine (imo anyway ).

Best regards,

Peanut
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