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Leed · Sep 22, 2012, 12:38 PM

Bless your heart. I know it's awful to be bullied all your life, so you have to learn how NOT to be bullied. You have to take your power BACK -- it seems that somewhere along the line you gave your power away.

You need the help of a therapist to learn how to take the power back from everyone who walks all over you, from the people who bully you, from the people who take advantage of you, etc. I had that trouble too for a lot of years. It seemed that I had "Walk all over me" tattooed on my forehead!!! I seemed to draw people like that to me, and they definitely took advantage of the situation.

My therapist helped me get my power back by building up my self-esteem and letting me know that I'm better than that. She showed me that I don't have to lay on the floor and be a door mat -- that I'm just as GOOD at anyone else -- even my bosses who were trying to "ease me out of my job" -- and I ended up suing them and I won!!!

So talk to your medical doctor and have him refer you to a good therapist. Then you can start sessions as soon as possible, which will get you feeliing much BETTER as soon as possible!!

Best of luck and please keep us posted, okay? Hugs, Lee