You're good, ((Tomi))!

Des - I think it's also quite OK to ask for the support you need. I know for many that is really difficult, (from their childhood teachings, etc.), but this seems like a terrific place to practice reaching out, by posting or privately in pm.

Also, Desirae - thanks for starting this discussion; I hope it has been helpful to you. I think it has been, and is, really important!

With warmest regard,

Peanut