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Rhapsody said:
OK - I got a question.... I hope it is ok to ask - ? ? ?

What am I to do if I have a few ppl on block and they have me on block and we can no longer have a conversation together - for we cannot see each others post, therefore, we have no way of knowing if the other person has changed or wants to change (or not)?
For while I see many making post of what should be or has to be from this point on.... the reality of the matter is very different from my personal side of the fence.

............... any ideals or suggestions?

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

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again, it's about acceptance. plain old acceptance.

and hoping that someone has changed may just fall under the old "expectations trap". i can't change anyone but myself. i can change my responses and how i take things. i can change my address and my sheets. but i can't change people here.

i can try to point out ways to look at the differences here, but i am not writing anything into concrete. i don't see anyone here doing that. i don't see a need for it, frankly.

this is an online community. all i need to do is take what i can use and let the rest go. i can logout and listen to Joan Armatrading and chill.....that's why it works for me, most of the time.