(((cusack10)))

In my opinion, your Q seems pretty vague and difficult to answer.

I don't know what the environment is like in the part off China that you're in. Some parts are rather advanced, others are repressed and old-fashioned. Just in my opinion, over what I've seen on tv. What do I know??

What is your psychological diagnosis? Do you have the patience to learn new skills, or are you seeking immediate gratification? Do you want to work with another, or be able to do the hobby alone?

There are lots of different ideas ~ depending upon what you're truly interested in and able to do. If you have some patience to learn a new skill... how about bowling, shooting pool or miniature golf? These things usually involve playing with others, taking turns, and having group fun. There are also other activities that can be done alone, or with others. Like....fishing, skating or biking and hiking, photography, creative writing, book clubs, etc. I'd advise you to be honest with what your abilities and weaknesses are and make decisions based upon your answers.

Imo, there are always options! You shouldn't have to sit around hopeless, feeling unable to make true friends who can relate and care. We all deserve that in life! Just time to think out of the box ~ and, hopefully, you have the freedom to have some positive experiences in life.

Very best wishes to you!