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Originally Posted by Psychicbaby323
I am sorry you are having a hard time. It has taken me a really long time (years) and a lot of therapy to get the point of it. It is different for everyone, but I think one part is to just keep going until you get there. I think another thing might be to try to push past those barriers when you are aware they are popping up.
Have you been able to talk with T3 about the transference feelings coming up?
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No we haven't discussed transference yet, I am afraid that she will terminate me like last t! She is very different to t1, cut it still scares me! I know this t is married so I no nothing can happen but I knew that anyway with t s that nothing can happen but because I didn't no whether u1 was married, divorced, gay or straight I kept obsessing over her! This t, I am afraid to even contact because of last t and our boundaries were blurred and messy eve to my own fault and a little of her fault too. This t wants me to email, she wants to her understand what is going on with me but I don't believe her that she cares enough to understand and I want to push her away! She is so nice and when I see her we talk but we talk about funny things and always end up laughing about people and their craziness:-) but I don't know how to move onto the hard stuff with her