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Originally Posted by button30
No we haven't discussed transference yet, I am afraid that she will terminate me like last t! She is very different to t1, cut it still scares me! I know this t is married so I no nothing can happen but I knew that anyway with t s that nothing can happen but because I didn't no whether u1 was married, divorced, gay or straight I kept obsessing over her! This t, I am afraid to even contact because of last t and our boundaries were blurred and messy eve to my own fault and a little of her fault too. This t wants me to email, she wants to her understand what is going on with me but I don't believe her that she cares enough to understand and I want to push her away! She is so nice and when I see her we talk but we talk about funny things and always end up laughing about people and their craziness:-) but I don't know how to move onto the hard stuff with her
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I know it is difficult to trust her care and concern, especially when you have experienced rejection from a T in the past. I think it is great that you are talking about this here. You sound like you really want to move past this and I believe you will find a way to do so when you are ready.
Since T3 wants you to email, do you think maybe emailing her some of your discussion here would be a possibility?
Sometimes all it takes to move on to the "hard stuff" is having the discussion with your T, that you are really not sure how to get there.