I have a severe self confidence issue. No matter how good I do wih things it always remains the same. Like I did excellent in EMT school, but when it came time to start my job I fell apart because I had no confidence. After I survived that event we talked about it.

He told me its my pattern. I asked him how do I fix my self confidence.. if I'm always going to default back to having none? He told me as I start to accomplish more, I will start to build it off those positive events instead of my negative past life events. He said I need to try and focus my thoughts on the things I have achieved, instead of my past...when my self confidence is very low. He did tell me that it will take a long time, and A LOT of postive events to change that way of thinking.