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Sep 23, 2012, 02:11 PM
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Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Mid World
Posts: 18,111
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I just want people to know I have not lost my marbles. I don't like abuse. I'm not staying because I'm weak. I love this man.
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Big Mama, I get so angry when I hear people say "she was brave enough to leave." Some times it takes true courage to stay. I don't know your whole story, but based on what you've said here you are doing the best you can in a very difficult situation.
You said your husband won't see a pdoc. Would he go for "family counseling" so the emphasis would not be on him, but on dynamics in the whole family? Or would he consider parenting classes? You could put it too him that you see him trying to make changes to be different than his father, but that the classes would give you both some ideas about parenting? Again taking the emphasis off him.
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