Should I feel bad for wanting him to move out? NO..

Am I a bad sister because I want him to move? NO..

Am I wrong for thinking that I should not be confined to my bedroom from fear that he causes..in my own home? NO....

i'm with your husband on this one. this person is tearing your life apart and causing you fear and stress. do you want to live like this any longer?

if he is old enough to buy alcohol, then he's old enough to live somewhere else and pay rent and utilities. he has the sweetest deal that i've ever heard of at your house....the only deal sweeter would be his not paying ANY rent.

and here's the kicker....as long as he gets by with all of this, you're enabling his behavior. and he won't have to change his lifestyle at all......

do you want a responsible and sober little brother? point him in the direction of a recovery group and change your locks.

you're a very good person and don't deserve this......good luck and keep posting and keep PC updated on your progress. xoxoxo pat