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Originally Posted by Big Mama
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My H wants to do better. He has done better than his dad. But It is so hard to stay. I do not allow him to put his hands on the kids.
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How do you manage to 'not allow him' to hit the kids? If he (or you?) can control that behavior, he can control his bad behavior with you..if he wants to. Lots of people come from bad backgrounds like his, but they don't abuse their wives. How he behaves is his choice.