From day to day, different things we focus on and our partners see differently. Smiles to you Desirae, and if he wants to go to the Pdoc that would be really great. How can you run that by him? Do you think that it could just be financial worries because if it is, my advice is telling him that you are understanding of how he hurts that he can't give you and the family more things and being reassuring and telling him the best things he has given-his good looks, himself, his great wonderfulness that you first attracted to and the fact that his love is the most powerful thing on Earth except for god and your higher power. See what happens after that kind of conversation? I don't think men really want to exibit rudeness, misery and the like, it is just that they signal to their woman that they are really hurting and painfully uncomfortable (wanting some undivided attention for "just" a little while- and than they will promise "you" that "They will make it all better," after they hear the words<" I BELIEVE IN YOU MR. MAN!"

Now what do you think of that ladies? BUT if has worked for me, that's all, it works for me, that way of behaving,,,,,,,,,,,,,,raze thinkin outloud agin