I agree with what GAbby has to say TB....most of the times when i read the posts I don't know what to say....I feel overwhelmed or just lost for words...sometimes inexperienced and sometimes thankful that I am feeling better... I would love to say come on get up life is going to be better but its not applicable at that moment everywhere, sometimes life just gives you s*** always and you have to take it but can I say this when someone is hurting....no....so virtual hugs is all i can give and thats what i give ....love always TB