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Old Sep 24, 2012, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
That's the thing. They don't happen in close real relationships, only with those who are unavailable to me.
This is what I think that you need to work on. All of these crushes that you described were relationships that occurred in your head with people that weren't available. You can work on this in therapy. This was the exact reason that I went to my first therapist. You can work through this.
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Thanks for this!
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