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Sep 24, 2012, 12:34 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Bless your heart -- you're right, it's a grieving process that we must goo thru. Maybe we don't grieve for the loss of the spouse, but we grieve for the lost years we spent married, that didn't go well, or that were miserable. We grieve that we wish we hadn't married at all! There are a lot of reasons to grieve when we divorce. I was married for 26 years when I divorced, and boy did i grieve the lost years! 
many times we lose friends thru the divorce too. ALL my friends dumped me when I divorced. My then ex had told them all kinds of lies and they wanted nothing to do with me. They never gave me a chance to defend myself, so I figured they were no friends of mine.
I hope you haven't lost friends thru this but if you have, don't sit home -- make sure you get out among people and make new friends. You're free now, so have some fun!
I wish you the very best. Keep posting ok? We'll be here for you. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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The truth shall set you free but first it will make you miserable..........................................Garfield
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