One of the things that attracted me to her was that on her Psychology Today bio listed boundary work and helping relationships heal as some of her specialties.. right now my marriage is in shambles because I found something out about my H and I haven't been able to move past it and he is in his own T and his T said he isn't ready for marriage counseling... and I have a whole lot of issues on my own...from abusive FOO so I need help separating what is me now... me past...and what is H...