I think it's nice that your T asked you if you wanted her to do something for your birthday. I remember when I was upset when my session was on my birthday and my T said she doesn't do anything for any client's b-day. That's when we made my card together, in the session.
I would have felt strange answering if I were asked that question, though. So I understand that you didn't answer. Will you now be disappointed if she DOES NOT give you anything? I think she will, though.

