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Originally Posted by Miswimmy1
It hurts... I've gone through the same thing. You have no idea, the time spent wishing I could go to my ts house, see her horse, live with her. Although my situation is a bit different (I wish she could be my mom and u wish for her to be your sister), I totally get it. I've had to have the same convo with my t, and I was an emotional mess te next couple days. It hurts. But u will be ok.  |
Thanks, Miswimmy. I don't think your situation is different. I wish my T were my friend, my sister, my partner, and my Mom, all rolled into one. She and I agreed about that today. It's just easier for me to say I want her to be my friend/sister, than my mother, but the bottom line is that I want her to be someone who takes care of me and is always there for me, and that's usually a mother. I've had this conversation many times, and it hurts just as much. Now I'm at the point where I have to accept it because it hurts more when I don't.