So about 4 years ago I fell in love with someone outside of my marriage. It just happened, for whatever reason. Nothing ever came out of it, and now it would even be too late to do something about it. I have been trying to jettison these feelings for quite some time. Why would I carry this on for someone who is unavailable? I think about it at least once a day, once too much. Anyone have a method that works? I feel like time alone is doing nothing about it.