I am sorry that you are having to go through all this..... but in the end I would have to say that the two of you would probably had problems, for the woman was not over the love she had for her husband quite yet - IMO she rushed the dating and getting engaged a little to fast.

Most marriage counselor will tell a newly divorced person to have at least 1 full year of having no one in their life... and to spend this time getting to know who they really are before they invite another back into their life and heart.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))