Although it ended traumatically with mt T, even he slowly over time introduced this material. Otherwise, I would have dissociated and not been able to process anything. This is the problem mayne with lost, when you dont process it gets stuck and cant be integrated. NOW when his T brings up the subject again, because hshe was overwhelmed it has the possibility of getting worse. I think his T dumped everything on her at once, and he isnt there now for her to process it. Jmo