Hi Cazadorleon,

I am so sorry you had to go through this. I believe that you did the right thing in letting her go. She sounds very confused, and should probably work at getting some help. I feel for you, I really do. It hurts to be promised "forever", only to have something like this happen. I think in the long run, she will regret her decision to go back with her husband. Like you said, he is using manipulation to get control over her again.

I really hope that you are ok in all of this. You sound like you are, but I know it has to hurt. They say everything happens for a reason. Who's to say what the reason is? I think it just means that there is something (or someone) better out there for you. I wish you the very best, and I hope you stick around here at PC because this is a really great and supportive site.

Sujin