No labels are needed. You feel what you feel, you think who you are, what you are, that's all that matters. You like to belong here, then you are here with us. Don't stress over giving yourself a label in order to feel accepted and a part of it, it is not necessary here. I hope you also find your daughter a therapist and get help for her, the earlier she gets help, sooner she can enjoy her life esp she is so young.