Who are you hurting Jacky? And what non-contributing kak is this? You work your bloody arse off!!!! If you hurt someone intentionally, I know you know how to apologize, you're a sweet soul. If its more complicated, I'm too ill-informed to advise... You're a good person and a good friend. Anyone who says different musta drank out the stupid glass! Love you Jacky, you have friends here...