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Originally Posted by Antimatter
Although it ended traumatically with mt T, even he slowly over time introduced this material. Otherwise, I would have dissociated and not been able to process anything. This is the problem mayne with lost, when you dont process it gets stuck and cant be integrated. NOW when his T brings up the subject again, because hshe was overwhelmed it has the possibility of getting worse. I think his T dumped everything on her at once, and he isnt there now for her to process it. Jmo
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But lost has been processing it extensively, so this doesn't hold water for me. She may not have been able to do it in the moment, but look at the careful thought and detailed description she has given of how she experienced this event. This is all incredibly useful information for her, and she wouldn't have any of it if she hadn't been forced to examine herself by pain.
There's a saying in Alanon that "It's not on a good day that we see ourselves." So I say forge on, lost.