If you choose to have children, there could STILL be some serious issues here with birth defects. I would be very very careful with this, plus I would see if this was even LEGAL in your state. It might not be.
Plus I would get some genetic counseling before having children. You OWE it to the children you MAY have. Why subject some poor baby to a life of hell with birth defects? It is morally WRONG so you must make sure that you do see a genetic counselor.
Personally, I would NOT risk it, and would end this relationship. It is just not work the risk. You can't just think of yourself -- you MUST think of the children that you may have. It's not just about YOU. And you CAN'T say that you won't have chldren -- things happen as we all know.
Best of luck. Hugs, Lee
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