Being honest with your therapist is always a good thing (assuming you have a good therapist)
But you shouldn't base your view of yourself just on what your therapist says.. it's so hard to get what you know in your head to be believed in your heart...
You don't need his approval, you need approval from a much more difficult source to get, yourself...
But just for the record I think you are small enough and pretty enough.. more than just enough..
But what I think isn't important, it's what you think that counts.. your therapist needs to help you believe that you are just fine the way you are, much more than he needs to just tell you that..
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“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi
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