My T rarely if ever tells me anything about her Husband. That is a boundary that HE has set up for her. He wants his own privacy. I know where he works and something that happened to him last year and thats about all. She would share more i think, but he doesnt want her too. Perhaps your t's husband is the same. But why does it matter to you so much what she does or doesnt say about her husband? Why is it such an issue?