hey lotsofq I'm not going to sessions very long about 29 weeks I think. Mostly I can make eye contact when T talks to me, but at the beginning even when she did talk to me, I didn't look at her. I don't know why. It is getting better. I just try to do it a little bit at a time. When I talk to her I tend to look everywhere except at her. I'm not even really completely sure what she looks like to be honest. I know she wears really lovely shoes. If I met her in the street I would probably recognise her by her shoes. We'll just have to keep trying Hopefully it gets easier x