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Old Sep 26, 2012, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by DrSkipper View Post
What do you do when you or your partner is on their period?

I'd really like to be fingered but that would be difficult if not messy to do while on my period. Should I wear a tampon until I'm ready? Oh yeah, btw, I found someone who's into Nazis and strapons! hahaha! I've known him for over a month and I let him go as far as fingering. We talked about ****, but I'd like to get used to being touched first because I'm super sensitive, but then again I'm so excited thinking tomorrow may be my first time and I really want this. I'm really excited!

Wish me luck!
I agree with Harley. Some guys don't seem to mind, others have hangups and can't get past it. Wearing a tampon will certainly help if you're only looking for manual sex at that time of the month, and I can't see why a guy would object to that at all. If you want to go further than just clitoral stimulation, keep it in until the last moment.

As for intercourse - I've found once you get beyond the first day or so and the flow lets up, it isn't quite as messy as one would think, at least for me (I never feel particularly good the first day or so anyway so it's the last thing on my mind). Laying down a towel just in case is advised of course.

I think you'll work it out as time goes by. I usually waited until I knew the guy fairly well before I sprung that on him, although I have had a couple of them broach it themselves before that. Again, no set rule on it - depends on the people involved.

Good luck! Enjoy!
Thanks for this!
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