You are completely fine My thinking is very similar to your first comment. But to clarify a bit from my side.. the spirit will live on forever in what you have done and created on this earth.... I want to become same with earth once I die which will hopefully be far, far in future!!! And share my energy where it belongs Mother nature has wonderful plans for all of us. Maybe I will be a little mushroom in next life and whatever I have done and contributed to the society during my living days will not be forgotten! In otherwords.... when I am gone & dead from this world... I do know I had a purpose for being here How and what my close family decides to deal with the remains... is totally up to them. I am an organ donor and hope they respect my wishes Hugs & be at piece