I am currently having a problem with my bd, and it's making my life a living hell. I don't know how many of you have problems with money, but it is a huge part of my BD that I cannot function without having a little money in my pocket. That has totally screwed up somethings with myself and my husband. The rent didn't get paid because I thought that I'd be getting another paycheck by the end of the month, but I still have yet to get it... thus rent was not paid and we are probably going to be evicted. I don't know how many times that I have told him I don't want to be in charge of paying bills and I am not good with money, he told me to learn... it's hard to learn to handle money when all you can think about is how to spend it. I need some advice on how to handle finances and how to get him to understand that when I say that, I need help. He thinks that there is nothing wrong with me and it's all in my head. I love him to pieces and don't want anything to happen to our relationship because he is the greatest thing to happen and I don't know what I'd do if I lost him. He is my bestfriend. But sometimes I lie to him about money because I always think I can fix the problem, but sometimes it just compounds and I end up in the dog house... please help if you have any suggestions!