I agree with the last poster. Right now I wish I could be justified to go SOMEWHERE so my husband could get a break from me. I am feeling down and am on crutches, so can't do much for myself. At least my kids are grown and away from home.
If we take the high road, which I suggest, then we can believe your relatives did what they did out of concern. It would make me mad, too, but it would be good if you could be monitored for a few days while adjustments are made and maybe your anger can get under better control.
Do keep us posted!