Good point. The more I read about borderline behaviors in relationships, I understand some of my reactions to others' flaws or immaturities.

Do about it? As I learn, I think I find more mercy and forgiveness...almost
detachment from toxic personalities because as I dig deeper into myself,
I learn I am not accountable for their flaws, nor am I interesting in fixing anyone. Nor am I interested in identifying wrongs hurled my way.

I'm more content in my strength, less demanding, but happy when I meet
people I can enjoy hanging with.

Peace,

".....help....a.......friend"