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Originally Posted by button30
Why I got triggered all over the place," when xT set boundaries
Do you have any abandonment issues that you are aware of? I am only asking because I have huge issues with this and I would get so triggered by this too. I would be hurt beyond belief, like I felt when my T terminated out of the blue.
JUst wanted to say I know how hard and frustrating it is but you are helping yourself now and thats the main thing  |
Yes, huge abandonment issues! I was so ungodly hurt beyond belief that itsent me into an enraged psychotic depression, if there is such a thing. I think I posted some kind of enraged negative post nightly for god knows how long, with a few good ones in between. It was nice to be on PC and just to get it all out, and I truly held nothing back.
I am definitely in it for me now. I still care alot about my xT, but I don't need him. I will never stop caring about him, and I think that it is okay for me to wish that he is happy. He helped me on my journey as far as he could, and now it is time for me to move on and find someone who can start where he left off. I like my new T thus far.
I am sorry you had to go through termination, it sucks. Thanks for your post