Different strokes for different folks. Some guys do not mind. Others do. It is all prefrence. Just let him know before hand. The others are right day one and two could be messy but after that lots less mess. there may be mess involved but not like the other days. This is also time when ovulation is near in some gals. So it is a great time to play around. But it's also a great time to get pregnent. Have fun and be careful. I'm so glad you found a nazis man who likes what you like. There is someone out there for everyone.