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Originally Posted by Passion222
Anika you're right, I'm very unhappy in my marriage. It's not like my husband is horrible. He's got a big heart and is a great dad. I just can't love him. I think the lovers I no longer have is making me so empty. My husband isn't affectionate AT ALL. Never has been. I have to financially figure out how I'd live without him but who doesn't have that worry right? I've actually been told I might not be bipolar --that I'm just trying to fill a void in my life. It has been since i got married 20 yrs ago that I got more and more moody and needy and "latchy" to lovers and.....list goes on and on. Thanks guys for giving me insight. Always appreciate your thoughts and hugs. Hugs back to you!!!
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I can see why that wouldn't make you happy, me either, I need lots of affection, LOTS, and that's ok, I am a very sensitive person. Maybe you are similar that way.
Do you feel like you are trying to fill a void? That's really a good question, most of us are at sometime or another, what's the void you are trying to fill tho? If we have a hole in the shape of a circle and we keep trying to stuff a square in it, it's never going to fill the hole right. Funny tho cause as humans we all know that, yet we all do it, I think we figured that one out as toddlers, but we keep trying.
But what do you think that could be, how could you fill it?
If we never figure out what it is or how to fill it ourselves, it's just a gaping hole, which usually just get bigger and bigger.