I'm glad T owned up to her shortcomings.

Your request for T to be more fulsome in her praise.....Did she say why she wouldn't do that? I'd imagine that would be important. Is it to avoid reinforcing that maternal/prince son dynamic? Is it because it wouldn't be genuine to her - because you are trying to mold her into something you want instead of her just being authentically her?

Saying that she is "wrong"....Perhaps it's just not what you want/need....but I wouldn't judge it as "wrong".