I think she means it on a professional level. Her support is there but not for every emergency that arises. I think she may be trying to get you to discover self-reliance. It does not mean the relationship will end, though.

You need to discuss with your therapist what you expect. Why do you see her? She was helping you with ADHD and OCD, right? Now, where is treatment going? Boundaries? The are blurry. You seem to see her as a mother figure who you heavily depend on. This is hurting you.

Sometimes, we have to accept limits in relationships. We need boundaries to maintain them along with our mental health. You don't see it right now, but later on, you will realize why they are in place, especially with a therapist.

I am sorry, I sound cruel, but I have noticed therapy is making you worse. It is not supposed to.

Also, is PC giving you self harm ideas? There has been a lot of SI and suicidal ideation threads, lately. If it is take a break from this site. Visit with friends, swim or do whatever to cope with stress in a healthy way. PLEASE don't self injure. It is not worth it.