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Leed · Sep 27, 2012, 04:44 AM

Bless your heart, I can sure relate. But why are you afraid to be on your own when you provide everything NOW. He isn't workiing, so you're the "brreadwinner" now, right? So what would be the difference if you got rid of him? He's no good to you === he's TOXIC.

Sweetie, this man is just like my ex. My ex too ALL my self-esteem away and made me feel like I couldn't do anything; Like I was a worthless piece of humanity; Like I had no reason to be on earth; He kept me from doing everything, including seeing my friends, so I lost every friend I had. I ALLOWED that to happen. It was MY FAULT that I allowed that. My ex even checked up on me when I went to see my parents -- he'd call me to make sure I was there -and my parents got awful sick and tired of that.

I put up with that for 26 years because I was AFRAID of that man. I was afraid that he would take my chldren because he threatened to and to take them where I could never find them -- I knew he was capable of doing that too. So I waited until my kids were both 18 or over. By doing that I hurt the kids, because they had to put up with his horrible attitude and abuse too.

DON'T DO WHAT I DID. Get out of there. And get out fast!!! He isnt' doing a thing to help you. He isn't providing a thing for you or the kids. ALL he is doing is constantly ABUSING YOU. GET RID OF HIM NOW.

You won't be in any worse shape when the baby comes. Please -- get out or throw HIM out. But do it now. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee