Hi, I agree with what everyone else has said - but looking from another perspective, maybe you are 'over thinking' his comments. They may well have just him being open and honest - not necessarily saying 'I want to be a father now!
Does he know you have trust issues, if he really is keen to get to know you, he needs to know that you need to take things slowly. Anyway, just different perspective
Take it slloooow - and stay safe