Rainbow, I don't know if you ever talked to your T about the book I recommended, "Boundaries" by Cloud and Townsend, but I really think you should read it. So far, it has taught me so much about boundaries. I know your faith differs from mine, but seriously, you can "read around it" in this book. It is SO good and easy to understand!

I think it's hard for you to understand boundaries because you probably don't have any for yourself. I didn't. I've finally set some in my life and it's helped me.