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Old Sep 27, 2012, 09:10 AM
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I have changed mine too - but there is no doubt in my mind that I have not been able to achieve the degree of healthy human attachments that I might have been able to achieve if I had experienced healthy attachments during my formative years.
I can never know what I would have been like if I had a healthier family. What I do know is that my life is 2000% better then it was 35 years ago.

What I also know is that when a person suffers they have a depth to their personality which those with easier lives don't have.

I'll take any improvement in my life that I can get and I'll be thankful for it.
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