Wolfin, have you thought about apologizing to your children with age appropriate language? Children are resilient and bounce back wash after wash. Just talk to them , tell them you are in a much better place now and that they need not worry. That you love them and will always be there for them and they can come to you as you are THEIR rock. This may help you to forgive your self and also to alleviate their concern. Open up the dialog...the thing about kids is they speak from the heart and a little love goes a long way. If you feel like you need to call T , then you should...even if it just helps to hold you together.

Sorry Sannah, we cross posted... LOL