Screenager, you can do it! All of this would be great to explore. You will learn a lot from it. I understand how scary it can be to bring something up. I have always forced myself to bring stuff up when it is important like this. I have brought things up shaking, crying, red in the face, white in the face, you name it. I was so glad that I did every time, though. It is the only way to move forward. Keep us posted?