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Originally Posted by peaches100
Sannah,
You don't understand anything. You're just like my parents who expected me to handle all my pain alone. Oh be a SUPERWOMAN! Hey, that's great. I'll just be an island. I've learned how to do that "real well!" Your message may have been made to help me, but instead it feels totally minimizing and invalidating, just like my FOO.
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Peaches, I have posted and posted and posted to you and so have many others here. Whatever we say bounces off of you. You are still in the same place. I was trying a different route because the other route wasn't working. You know the definition of insanity, keep trying the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
I am not your FOO and you are clearly triggered right now. You made a huge blanket statement that I don't understand anything. Wow, I have spent so much time reading and responding to your posts over the years.
No where in my statements did I say that you should handle your pain alone. My statements were meant to direct attention to your strength. Increasing your strength cannot be a bad thing. Increasing your strength can help you use the resources around you better.