Good luck with your appointment. Say how you feel to the minister. Say all that can be shared and try not to control yourself; honesty is painful but letting out things can be the start of something significant. This can be taken to the home and be appreciated by your spouse.Let me draw a picture example: Some music is loud and earth shaking, some is like a sympony, but all music that is practiced alittle sounds better to the ones we really love, because it is beautiful, meaningful and worth sharing. ANYTHING that is valuable and worth sharing becomes important and valuable to another and allows the other to give away something that is really worth sharing, when it is modeled by the wife.